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02.27.05 (1:42 am)

and i forgot to mention, how I loved every moment of the cuddling as well. more than the wrestling? yeah maybe!! except am wondering if Ash thinks i am a hairy female octopus, when i drape my arms and legs all over him. karen

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wrestling in bed

02.27.05 (1:37 am)

hehe, yeah WRESTLING that was our idea of kink on saturday night. had made elaborate plans of goin out partying. had loads of invites to happening places, but what do we choose to do? Sit in bed, and cuddle. and watch some romantic stuff on tv. and cuddle some more. dinner in bed. and then cuddle some more. and then Ash decided to pin me down and pinch nipples. think thats something he'd never get tired of. and since i wanted to watch the show on TV, i decided to grab his hands and keep them off me. lol. thats how our wrestling started, finally looked like i was getting defeated coz he had both my hands pushed under me, my arse up in the air, while he sat on my back and spanked my butt. SPANK- SPANK- SPANK. ouch ouch ouch. Butt was burning, ego was hurt, but i was turned on. had a blast, and realised humiliation does do the trick. But have decided am going to watch a lot a wrestling moves on RAW and Smackdown this week, so i can be the woman on top next week. hehe. Ash says"in your dreams" but he has no idea.... Karen

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Phewww! It's the weekend

02.26.05 (4:44 am)

Yay.. It's finally the weekend.. after a rather trying week, it's nice when everyone (almost) around you is on holiday as well.. Even if it's just for a day or too. Things have been rather quiet around here, Just getting settled in..cleaning out the cobwebs and dusting out the old Bondage gear.I've promised Karen a kinky weekend. So am definitely posting what transpires here. Happy weekends all.. Ash

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Waiting for Ash to wake up!

02.17.05 (10:32 pm)

Its almost 1pm and Ash is still asleep. Was planning to take him out for lunch today, to a Crab, Lobster and Wine Festival thats on in the city. But guess thats got to wait for another day. When i first met Ash, waking up after noon was a habit. He partied all nite, picked up the craziest women in town and well, didnt ever get to bed before 5am. That was a year back! That was one of the things that attracted me, that he was such a compulsive flirt. The kind of person born to have fun, always smiling (at least when he's with me) and keeping everyone else smiling too. There's something in Ash that gets the women; haven't as yet been able to put a finger on it...his eyes, all brown and puppy-dog -like? his brattish grin? his ability to make every woman feel special? his charm that makes one comfortable? or that dark mystery that you can't really put a finger on? But it gets them all the time. But today, he's asleep coz he was up all nite with a sick aunt. Was with her till he was sure she was comfortable and asleep. Back home only at dawn. Today, as I sit waiting for him to wake up and brighten my day, i wonder whether its none of the above characters that make him so lovable. What makes him what he is - is his heart! Just to tell you Ash, how much I love you. Karen

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Just some poetry

02.16.05 (7:48 am)

With shards of sorrow   he wobbled there Melancholious tomorrow   he stumble's here Eye's of regret   he stroked her hair Whispered winds of lament   he always wanted to care Her eyes, Her eyes   blue and blood shot in their stare Her lips, her breath   as cold as the frostbitten air Her neck, her face   red smears and an open vein Her love, her life   crestled and dead just as his shame

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Ooh I've been Naughty Spank me Bottom BLUE!

02.16.05 (7:40 am)

Funny thing about keeping a blog is there's always so much you think should go in, when you're not at the computer. The minute you are everything is forgotten. Anyway's seeing as how this blog is meant to be our kinky chronicle, let me start with the kinky stuff. The past few months have been rather full, we've experimented with a variety of different things and techniques from asphyxia to atleast the fantasy of zoophilia. Strangely enough what I think it is about S&M that first got me going, was how different it is from everything else around. Now, I don't claim to be an elitist, but I love to be different. And I guess that true to almost everyone. We all want to be the 'first' to do ... well.. anything. What had me bored until recently was how 'set' the whole BDSM community is, there seemed to be rules everywhere, if not the typical atleast the stereo-typical a 'true' dom has to be like this . etc etc. For all of you out there who are just starting along, it's about the fun and ofcourse your own fantasy. All the information out there. Is just that information, to make S&M easier to digest. There's so ONE way to do anything. As long as your having fun who cares. Enough with the preaching- JEEZ Anyway, I've been real nasty lately. It had been atleast a month or so, since i let Karen dominate me, After much beggin(hehe) she finally got the oppurtunity yesterday, and my poor arse still hurts from the spanking. Am sure she'll have an play-by-play when she posts. So won;'t spoil that for her. Besides am off now, trying to figure out a way to redesign the blog. Cheers . Ash

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Forever and Always

02.15.05 (9:02 am)

I can never be a poet and am not even trying. But Ash, you should know that I am yours. completely - mind, body and soul. I am yours- Today tomorrow and forever. I am yours - with all my strengths and my shame. I love you more than words can say and my feelings for you will never change. Just know my feelings are completely true and remember always that "I LOVE YOU" KAREN P.S: that rhymes, doesn't it? almost getting there @ being a poet, hehe

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Questions?

02.14.05 (4:18 am)

I feel I don't know what to do, for it seems a though I've fallen in love with you. You're constantly on my mind everyday, I just want to hear your voice when your away. I believe this will be hard to subdue, for there are so many hills to climb before I can make it through. When I love someone I need to have them all...mind, body and soul. For these things would become a part of me I wouldn't want to let go. To reach inside and understand the person you are... These questions are all I have so far; I need to know what angers you, I need to know what makes you happy too? I want to know you inside and out, relieving me of things I might doubt. To touch you where it feels the best, to hold you and kiss you, and never feel anything less. When I wake in the night, I think of you... walking, driving and working too. I just can't get you out of my mind, between you and I there seems to be some kind of a bind! I have so many things to think through, feelings and thoughts I want to share with you. Tell me, are you feeling this way to, like me? If you are.. decipher it, weigh the pros and cons and see. Can you love me with all your heart? will you keep those feelings.. the ones from the start. Could you think of how much you love me when we begin to grow apart.. Would you then grasp that rope, pull it in, and love me like from the start? Could you bring me flowers every now and then... surprise me with funny little things and make me feel alive again. Would you keep our romance over candle light and wine.. really knowing how much that would make me shine. If I lost my arms and legs... would you love me still... could you love me anyway? If my lips were dry, would you wet them dear... could you love me if I became blind or couldn't hear? Have you enough love in your heart for an eternity... or do you just love the person that you now see? If I were to change and grow very ill... could you.., wouldyou.., love me still? Could you hold my dieing hand and tell me you love me then.. hold me one last time and tell me you'll see me soon again? Can you say yes to all these things, or would you pause... then spread your wings? Could you love me if I was right or wrong.. Honestly tell me, that in your life is where I belong? Can you tell me all your secrets and fabtaies.. share your laughter, teers and everything? Could you be true to me for as long as we both live.. or, would you give into lust...and later ask me to forgive? Could you, would you.. love me with all your heart, promissing me you'd never tear it apart? That even when we grow old and gray. your love is still locked in your heart to stay? I can surely say yes to all of this to you, can you say yes... in spite of all this you'd love me too!

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Kinky Valentine?

02.14.05 (4:13 am)

Happy Valentine's day to you all,We're both going out in a little while quiet candlelit dinner and loads of dancing, They;ve promised a live band at the place we're going. But you never know. Anyway, I've been trying hard to sort out a way to post all our holiday pictures here. As soon as I do, I promise loads of pics. until then.. have a good one Ash

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Return to Blogging??

02.09.05 (8:19 am)

Wow, It's been many many months, feels like forever, since I've logged in here.. So much has happened since that last post. We've travelled, returned, Travelled again. Been on a whole host of kinky adventures, and we're back now, To Blogging atleast, no longer as just a kinky couple. But as a Kinky married couple. Which just about changes everything. Though not in the way I would've thought, we're so much happier this way, despite our obvious flaws, and Kinks. I think Its what has made this relationship so interesting. It's a little over a year since I first met her, A day before her birthday I might add. A quick call, then a hurried shower and off to meet this mysterious woman at the Rennaisance for an Indian meal. The meal was passing, neither of us really said much. Agreed to meet in a few days. And that should've been it. Strangely It was Cupid's arrow that did us in, on Valentines Day if you will, when we found ourselves together again amongst friends at a natty resto-'cool'-eaterie, and there has been no looking back since. Only a year, but it feels like we've known each other atleast a life-time, How time changes a person, Age and reason can only be found in the love of a good woman someone said. And this Valentines Day, while the rest of the world celebrates 'Love'. That's what the two of us, will be doing too.. Celebrating Love and togetherness and a wonderful marriage. Cheers. Ash

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