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| Bondage: Good safety hints |
| 11.15.04 (1:19 am) |
* Never try to use one long end of rope, but instead use
different shorter pieces. This will enable you to plan and
adjust your bondage, without getting entangled in yards and
yards of rope. Plus, it is simply easier to make
corrections.
* Learn and practise two or three knots that you will
always use and that you can tie and untie with your eyes
closed. That will improve the self-confidence of the dom as
well as the sense of safety of the sub. Besides, it actually
is a lot safer if, in case of an emergency, you know what
knots you made so untieing them is easier.
* Bondage is highly erotic and very powerful. Often subs
especially underestimate just how hard the sense of
vulnerability, helplesness, exposure and defenselesness can
kick in - even with something "simple" as just having your
hands tied behind your back. So, go slow. Build up step by
step instead of throwing one technique on another at high
pace. Often having her sleep next to you with her tied hands
stretched towards you on your pillow is a lot more erotic
than trying to have her hang from the ceiling. The latter is
okay too, of course, but only when appropriate and if you
know what you are doing.
Ref:www.powerotics.com
Karen
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| Bondage 2 |
| 11.15.04 (1:17 am) |
The Key Elements of Bondage
There are four key elements to bondage. They do not always
come together in every bondage and they do not have to. That
is up to the dominants' plan and intentions. But it is
important to understand them. Regardsless the technique you
use, these key elements (in random order) are:
Time
Helplesness
Exposure
Frustration
While in oriental bondage these elements are examined
and used in great detail, western bondage is more often used
to either "just" restrain or as part of a session that
incorporates a lot more. While you do not have to go as far
as the oriental bondage specialists, you will greatly benefit
from looking at these elements and using them in your scenes
and sessions. It will make the effects of the bondage, hence
your entire scene, a lot more intens without extra effort.
Taken from www.powerotics.com
Karen
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| Bondage 2 |
| 11.15.04 (1:16 am) |
The Key Elements of Bondage
There are four key elements to bondage. They do not always
come together in every bondage and they do not have to. That
is up to the dominants' plan and intentions. But it is
important to understand them. Regardsless the technique you
use, these key elements (in random order) are:
Time
Helplesness
Exposure
Frustration
While in oriental bondage these elements are examined
and used in great detail, western bondage is more often used
to either "just" restrain or as part of a session that
incorporates a lot more. While you do not have to go as far
as the oriental bondage specialists, you will greatly benefit
from looking at these elements and using them in your scenes
and sessions. It will make the effects of the bondage, hence
your entire scene, a lot more intens without extra effort.
Taken from www.powerotics.com
Karen
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| Bondage 2 |
| 11.15.04 (1:15 am) |
The Key Elements of Bondage
There are four key elements to bondage. They do not always
come together in every bondage and they do not have to. That
is up to the dominants' plan and intentions. But it is
important to understand them. Regardsless the technique you
use, these key elements (in random order) are:
Time
Helplesness
Exposure
Frustration
While in oriental bondage these elements are examined
and used in great detail, western bondage is more often used
to either "just" restrain or as part of a session that
incorporates a lot more. While you do not have to go as far
as the oriental bondage specialists, you will greatly benefit
from looking at these elements and using them in your scenes
and sessions. It will make the effects of the bondage, hence
your entire scene, a lot more intens without extra effort.
Taken from www.powerotics.com
Karen
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| Bondage 1 |
| 11.15.04 (1:14 am) |
It's all about ropes
There are basically two main bondage styles in the world:
Western (usually simply known as bondage) and Japanese
(oriental or Shibari if you like). The main difference
between the two is in the pretty straight forward
restraining function, with a few erotic streaks, that
usually characterizes Western bondage and the multi-goal,
multi-layered approach of Japanese bondage.
In fact, there are actually three main styles and it is not
as simple as the above definition may lead you to believe.
Next to western and oriental, quite a few dominants will
tell you there is also something called "art bondage" (or
"erotic bondage"). This refers to "their own style",
usually indicating a bondage style that is predominantly
aimed at beauty.
Bondage - regardless the style - has a huge appeal, even to
many people outside the BDSM-community. This is largely the
result of the fact that being helpless is sometimes also
highly erotic and of course the fact that fantasies about
rape and forced sex are the number one female sexual
fantasy, while - even to most "vanilla" men - the element of
being in control (and bondage visualizes that element in
ways, no other technique does) is highly appealing as well
as highly erotic.
from (www.powerotics.com)
Karen
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